A Beginner's Guide

Sandra Dieben (she/her) is a NVVS physician-sexologist and works at the Sexological Expertise Centre Haarlem and the Sexology outpatient clinic of Amsterdam UMC. With her extensive experience in sexology, reproductive medicine, patient care, and education, she combines expertise with humour, empathy, and attention to diversity. Her goal? To make sexuality enjoyable, light-hearted, and discussable again, and to help people rediscover lost sexual pleasure.

Touch-Me is mindful of her facial care and nutrition, but the intimate zone often only receives attention once problems have already arisen. However, this area in particular deserves daily care: the skin there has a higher hydration need and is more sensitive to irritation than the rest of the body. Moreover, the intimate zone naturally has an acidic pH of 3.8 to 4.5, which protects good bacteria. Regular soap, with an alkaline pH of 8 to 10, disrupts this balance and can lead to dryness, irritation, and a disturbed microbiome. Just as healthy nutrition is intended to prevent problems, mild intimate care is not a last resort solution, but a daily habit to maintain natural balance. True self-care doesn't stop at what's visible: the parts of the body that no one sees also deserve attention.

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Are you planning an evening, a birthday, or simply a spontaneous moment? Our team is happy to assist you personally and discreetly, even if it's a surprise for your partner.

It only takes one spark to turn an ordinary August evening into an unforgettable sensory adventure. Discover how two glasses of wine, dim lighting, and one refined secret can transform your summer evening into a game of deep connection. Do you dare to slow down and feel what happens when the agenda completely disappears?

At Touch-Me, we think as much about the science behind desire as we do about the materials we select. Curious which ritual accessory suits you best? Discover our collection, shipped in completely discrete, plain packaging.

A blog about the philosophy of Touch-Me.nl: conscious sensuality, self-care, and the art of seduction as a basis for more connection with yourself and each other.

Every relationship has moments when desire demands new attention. In this blog, you'll read how a vibrator for couples can help to break the routine, bring back more excitement, and connect more intimately. A gentle, stylish guide for couples who want to rediscover their desire, with confidence, curiosity, and complete discretion.

Jeremy Heshof is the founder of 'Praktijk voor Mannen' (Practice for Men) and works as a registered psychosocial therapist, sexologist, and relationship therapist. He offers individual help to men and provides relationship therapy for couples. He specializes in themes related to sexuality and relationships, including recovery after infidelity, erectile dysfunction, sexual abuse, and fetishes. Additionally, he is a therapist for sex addiction and pornography addiction. Jeremy frequently appears in the media as an expert. He is well-known to the general public as the relationship expert from the HBO Max television series 'Sex Tape,' in which he discusses the love lives of well-known and unknown Dutch people together with Bobbi Eden. Furthermore, he regularly shares his expertise in various newspapers, magazines, and television programs, such as Flair, EditieNL, NRC, Men's Health, Playboy, and various podcasts.

Let's MissBehave is much more than an erotic cookbook. In this personal story, you'll discover how Carlijne van Popering, driven by love, loss, resilience, and a deep desire to bring people closer together, created a stylish cookbook that unites food, sensuality, and open communication.

Jolien Spoelstra is a sexologist (NVVS) and EFT relationship therapist, working in her own practice in Haarlem. In addition to her work as a therapist, she is the author of the book Zinderend Leven and has a regular column in Santé Magazine. On her website, you can find tools and courses to shape your love life so that it truly suits you. www.jolienspoelstra.nl

 Small moments keep your relationship strong a compliment, a hug, or creating an intimate moment together. Choose one tip and start today. If problems persist, seek professional help.

Celebrate the Journey of Intimacy at Every Age  

Anna (43) from Amsterdam shares her personal journey of discovery to conscious pleasure and self-care.

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