A Beginner's Guide

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A blog about the philosophy of Touch-Me.nl: conscious sensuality, self-care, and the art of seduction as a basis for more connection with yourself and each other.

Every relationship has moments when desire demands new attention. In this blog, you'll read how a vibrator for couples can help to break the routine, bring back more excitement, and connect more intimately. A gentle, stylish guide for couples who want to rediscover their desire, with confidence, curiosity, and complete discretion.

Jeremy Heshof is the founder of 'Praktijk voor Mannen' (Practice for Men) and works as a registered psychosocial therapist, sexologist, and relationship therapist. He offers individual help to men and provides relationship therapy for couples. He specializes in themes related to sexuality and relationships, including recovery after infidelity, erectile dysfunction, sexual abuse, and fetishes. Additionally, he is a therapist for sex addiction and pornography addiction. Jeremy frequently appears in the media as an expert. He is well-known to the general public as the relationship expert from the HBO Max television series 'Sex Tape,' in which he discusses the love lives of well-known and unknown Dutch people together with Bobbi Eden. Furthermore, he regularly shares his expertise in various newspapers, magazines, and television programs, such as Flair, EditieNL, NRC, Men's Health, Playboy, and various podcasts.

Let's MissBehave is much more than an erotic cookbook. In this personal story, you'll discover how Carlijne van Popering, driven by love, loss, resilience, and a deep desire to bring people closer together, created a stylish cookbook that unites food, sensuality, and open communication.

Jolien Spoelstra is a sexologist (NVVS) and EFT relationship therapist, working in her own practice in Haarlem. In addition to her work as a therapist, she is the author of the book Zinderend Leven and has a regular column in Santé Magazine. On her website, you can find tools and courses to shape your love life so that it truly suits you. www.jolienspoelstra.nl

Small moments keep your relationship strong—a compliment, a hug, or creating an intimate moment together. Choose one tip and start today. If problems persist, seek professional help.

Celebrate the journey of intimacy at any age

Anna (43) from Amsterdam shares her personal journey of discovery to conscious pleasure and self-care.

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